Yeah that’s just fucked up. Like there’s a HUGE FUCKING DIFFERENCE between actually caring and being COMPLETELY OVERPROTECTIVE. ex: Ron’s parents vs my parents
Yeah so I’m saying if the parent actually has the kid’s best interests in mind, but the kid is so upset that they can’t do the thing that they just accuse their parents of not loving them, the parents at that specific moment are fully within their parental rights to just bring the hammer down on them.
ok that’s not what I’m getting at we both know my mom’s a goddamn bitch.
Oh your mom’s a wackjob but that’s not what I was saying.
I’m saying like, when parents don’t let a 13 year old go to a party or their daughter date the druggie and they just fucking LOSE it.
If your parents are in the right, or if they know what’s best for you in that situation, but you’re just so mad at them for not letting you do what you want that you accuse them of not loving you, your parents at that very moment have every right to just ruin your goddamn life because clearly they don’t love you despite all the stuff they provide for you, bought you, and the roof they struggle to keep over your head.
if you give kids zero restrictions they’ll become the nicest fucking kids ever who never do drugs or get into trouble i know because my parents let me do nothing but eat chicken nuggets all day and read hentai until 4am and i am a straight A student
Seriously though this seems to be the case with a ton of people I know, if you don’t restrict them all the time they actually do better and are mentally healthier
WHY DON’T PARENTS UNDERSTAND THIS?!?
The correct answer is that they need limits, but not on every single aspect of their life.
gross domestic au adventures with dumblr user cashtier
mituna/psiioniic works as a seaman who ships (betty crocker) products to other branches so he’s always away and sollux and terezi get stuck with their anime lawyer mom latula/redglare who buys like 40 games for herself(and insults sollux by calling him by his full name when he loses in pvp games)
sometimes she forgets shes a proffesional prosecuting attorney with two sometimes three shit-talking mouths to feed